Sexual Fantasies v. Hard Limits

I blogged about this before but I think it is worth revisiting. A recent article at Ask Men stated the top 10 fantasies that women have. Hmm, you know what I’m going to type next- why isn’t this on Ask Women.com? Isn’t it interesting that domination is in the top 2?

A commenter on my blog recently posted that people love to read about sexual fantasies that they wouldn’t actually ever do in real life. People in the BDSM lifestyle have hard limits. Now I’m thinking that Vanilla (those people who do not engage in kinky sex) people have hard limits as well. I’d never really thought about it before. Lifestylers have limits like no scat, no golden showers, no children, no blood (and I have to say that for some these are even negotiable) while vanilla people have limits such as no anal, no certain positions, no- whatever.

So share your hard limit with me.